we have our consultation tomorrow and i’m pretty nervous. that seems to be a common state for me lately, doesn’t it? i’m not sure exactly what we’ll have to do, but i do know–from asking friends who have done it–that we’re going to be asked why we want to have a baby. i’m not sure what the right answer is. we’re pretty sure we shouldn’t say that it’s because we want to combat the christian army her brother is breeding, or so that we can raise a football player so we don’t have to worry about retirement. what is the right answer, though? is there a right one, really? we want to have babies because we’ve both always wanted to be mommies. we want to raise kids with someone we love and who shares our outlook on things. because we both have strengths that complement the other and we want to share that and raise a family together. and for a million other reasons that i can’t even think of or put words to.
that’s good enough, right?
